Integrity is the value I hold highest. I believe that having a strong value means knowing how you BEHAVE day after day, and in every situation. For me, being in integrity means:
πΌ I am the same in every situation.
πΌ I never speak about people in a way I wouldn’t directly to their face.
πΌ I am open and honest with agenda and approaches.
πΌ I hold confidences, even when someone pushes for what I know.
πΌ I honor differences in styles and approaches.
When someone questions my integrity, I am first deeply hurt. I try to understand their point of view. (That’s my integrity too) often in asking I learn that it wasn’t really my integrity they were questioning, it is a belief they have differently that was triggered.
I am OKΒ with that.