Often, when wanting a strong, loving, intimate mate, we look outward. We create that “list” of traits and characteristics they must possess. We even write out the deal breakers!
Most those things aren’t what makes a great relationship. Ok, yes, I have a deal breaker…smoking…..could NOT be with a smoker, lol! But height, education, family background – just don’t create a dream relationship.
Because having that is about you. Yes, I said it. It isn’t about finding the best partner….it is about being one. How do you show up everyday full of love, gratitude, and appreciation? How are you a better listener, cheerleader and comfort? How will you be vulnerable, open, sensual and up-level yourself?
Everyday. For your relationship.
When you lead what you want, you get it. You attract someone who does the same for you.
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